I was driving home today when I happened upon a couple of guys walking toward me from the other side of the road. I could tell one of them had some kind of something bundled in the crook of his left arm. As I pulled up to the stop light, he noticed me looking and immediately changed his posture and adjusted the bundle. I could see then that he was carrying a baby simulator, one of the most inventive, yet statistically non-productive, teaching tools of the 20th century.
He must have thought I was someone he knew because right away, he corrected his hand positions and began to cradle the baby's head with one hand, while supporting the baby's bottom with his other. I smiled and giggled and when he realized he didn't know me at all, he blushed and relaxed his hold on the little joy. His buddy punched him in the arm and I could hear them berating each other with terms of endearment known to parents of teenage boys nation wide!
Oh, the websites spout research and statistics touting their substantive evidence that real life experience is proven to be effective in teaching kids about the reality of raising children. But when you think about it, in my generation we only had the menstruation video and we didn't have pregnancy pacts back then!
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=5215182&page=1
While I don't advocate abstinence only policies, I do think it is important for children to be made aware of the consequences of their actions. I think the best thing we can do as parents is to raise our children to have the self confidence and self value to know they will make good decisions.
In the mean time, I think the humiliation these boys endures, while ineffective, sure is entertaining!
Crap! That reminds me...I have to get the chocolate boy a bag of flour!
ReplyDeleteand it's a girl! lol!
ReplyDeletethe flour sack? oh, that's rich! hey, doesn't he go tto the rich kids school? Why don't they get the real baby simulators? I mean, I'm not complaining, flour sacks are a whole lot quieter and easier to take care of! lol
ReplyDeleteGood luck with that!